Where are the Good Guys?

I'm sitting on the bus after work watching it fill up for the 40 min ride home. At the last stop one guy and two ladies get on and all but the last lady gets a seat. Nobody offers to stand for the LONG ride home so I quickly show some good old fashioned Southern hospitality and offer her my seat. The issue I have with the guys, even older guys, is that the guy that got on first at the last stop should have let the ladies on first. Then nobody would have to offer up their seat. Second, I can't believe the guys right next to her just ignored her. Guys out there, if you want to be real MEN then learn how to put others first and not your own dumb ass. I fear for how the next generation is being raised if this is a typical role model and influencer of that generation. I also fear for where our nation is headed too.